“Why are you isolating and distancing yourself from crowd out there?”- My high school friend asked me one fine day.
To which I reckoned with a real simple yet abstract answer,“No I am not isolating myself. It’s just that I am trying to figure what mess I wanna be around.I am finding my tribe. Which I haven’t so far. And when it comes to distancing yourself from people, they are never close enough to get distant in the foreseeable future . I am just engrossing on things which are more imperative (important) for me!”
You see life’s like this puzzle or may be humans are. They instill in you this hustling urge to be a part of something special , something outrageous to be more precise. When they tell to you get along on the path they feel is the exclusive path or trail which makes you more desirable for the people. And obviously when you don’t “fit-in”, you don’t belong there. That’s what I was most often told or rather explained with various dazed reasons. High School does that to a person, doesn’t it?
Not that only fellows of my age group goes through “falling out of the category”, the concept is no exception to the adult life. The more you climb the ladder of life, the more you divulge into the societal norms of finding where you belong or simply called your Tribe.
We are always told to be ourselves, to preserve the uniqueness that we are blessed with. But on an intriguing and honest note do we really care about what anyone has to say. One thing that I learned all this while was whether you belong somewhere or you don’t, you absolutely at no point can destroy the person within. Apprehensions and reluctance will always precede you, all you have to do is to be the turtle and win the race. Let the world go into the state of awe.
You never get away with options of feeling temptated enough to again fall for the same & sane parameters of life . For the most part of it you crave for association and clan.
You don’t fit in? Well you don’t have to because you are your own tribe.
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